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Getting to the heart of the matter: Unlocking Blocks to Intimacy


  • Aloha Villas 1338 Uluniu Road Kihei, HI, 96753 United States (map)
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
— Rumi

Who are you in a relationship? What would it look like to live an open-hearted life? Are you ready to explore what holds you back from getting what you want in relationships? By discovering how and why we get in our own way, we are more equipped to both stop the cycle of self-defeating relationship patterns and repair the parts of ourselves that block us from finding and keeping the love we want.

Expand who you are in a relationship in a 5-day luxury Hawaii retreat that includes 3 full days led by Toni Herbine-Blank, MS, RN, C-SP, Clinical Specialist Psychotherapist, Senior Trainer for the Center for Self Leadership, international speaker, author and founder of Intimacy from the Inside Out©:

  • Understand wounds and defenses that inhibit connection
  • Deepen relationship with yourself to be more present with others
  • Bring awareness to patterns that block connection and intimacy
  • Cultivate authentic, open-hearted communication 

Whether you are currently in a relationship, just ended a relationship or striving to start one, we invite you to take a step toward inner and outer transformation. The Island of Maui and its natural beauty is the ideal location for healing and self-discovery. Our high-end, luxury beachfront villa and locally-sourced meals prepared by a private chef provide a safe and relaxing environment to reflect and expand your internal and inter-personal life. Through meditation, yoga, massage, internal inquiry, nature, journaling and sharing with others, you will open channels of vulnerability and stimulate powerful connections.

How big can your heart get?



Retreat Program

19th of May:

Arrival and orientation 2:00 pm
Introduction Session: 5:00-7:30 pm
7:30 pm Hawaiian Aloha Dinner

20th of May:

Mindful Meditation Session 7:00-7:45 am
Breakfast 8:00-9:00 am
Morning Session 9:30 am - 12:30 pm
Lunch 1:00-2:00 pm
Afternoon Session 3:30-6:00 pm
Sunset Yoga 6:00-7:00 pm
Dinner 7:00-8:00 pm

21st of May:

Mindful Meditation Session 7:00-7:45 am
Breakfast 8:00-9:00 am
Morning Session 9:30 am - 12:30 pm
Lunch 1:00-2:00 pm
Afternoon Session 3:30-6:00 pm
Sunset Yoga 6:00-7:00 pm
Dinner 7:00-8:00 pm

22nd of May:

Mindful Meditation Session 7:00-7:45 am
Breakfast 8:00-9:00 am
Morning Session 9:30 am - 12:30 pm
Lunch 1:00-2:00 pm
Afternoon Session 3:30-6:00 pm
Sunset Yoga 6:00-7:00 pm
Dinner 7:00-8:00 pm

23rd of May:

Mindful Meditation Session 7:00-7:45 am
Breakfast 8:00-9:00 am
Island activities 10:00-6:00 pm
Sunset Yoga 6:00-7:00 pm
Hawaiian a Hui Hou Dinner 7:00-8:00 pm

24th of May:

Mindful Meditation Session 7:00-7:45 am
Breakfast 8:00-9:00 am
Check Out by 11:00 am


Location:

www.alohavillas.com | Aloha Villas Resort

www.alohavillas.com
Aloha Villas Resort | Maui - Hawaii
1338 Uluniu Rd, Kihei, HI 96753


Included:

  • 5 nights accommodation in Shared, Single, Double or Premium Rooms

  • Full board - locally sourced meals by private chef

  • Fruit, tea, Hawaiian Kona coffee and filtered water

  • Free use of Aloha Villas Resort facilities: Internet, jacuzzi, swimming pool, outdoor shower

  • All workshops and sessions as written in the program

Not included:

  • Flights to/from Kahului (OGG) International Airport

  • Transfers to/from Aloha Villas


Your Teacher:

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Toni Herbine-Blank ( http://www.toniherbineblank.com ) MS RN Cs-P is a senior trainer for The Center for self-leadership. Her expertise is the use of IFS with couples and has developed training, retreats, and workshops presenting these offings nationally and internationally. She is an experienced group leader with a reputation for being compassionate, respectful and empowering. Toni brings depth, humor, and skill to her workshops, drawing on 25 years as a couple’s therapist and most importantly her 23-year marriage to her husband Jordan. Her book Intimacy from the Inside Out; Courage and Compassion in Couple Therapy are available on Amazon.


Catering provided by:
 

consciousquisine


Conscious Quisine | www.consciousquisine.com


REFUND/CANCELLATION POLICY: A full payment is required to guarantee your reservation. 50% of the payment will be refunded if canceled within 3 Months before the day of the retreat. 100% of the estimated balance will be charged to your account if canceled within 30 days of the retreat.


Organizer:

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Yoon Im Kane - LCSW, IFSCP, CGP
Founder and Executive Director at Mindful NYC

Yoon Kane is a Yale-trained psychotherapist and the founder & executive director of Mindful Psychotherapy Services, a private psychotherapy center with offices based in Manhattan. The Mindful mission is to provide a safe, supportive atmosphere to help individuals work through psychological and emotional blocks that interfere with living a fuller, richer life. 

Yoon is also the founder and CEO of Zentu, an e-therapy HIPAA compliant platform that connects mental health counselors and coaches to clients worldwide. Before becoming a founder and CEO, Yoon was the co-founder of Park Avenue Weight & Wellness Center, clinical social work fellow at the Yale University Child Study Center, Yale Research fellow for Child Development & Social Policy. Yoon’s expertise as a trauma therapist as well as her specialization in children's mental health and social policy provided opportunities for her to testify as a trauma expert in state and federal court on behalf of victims of child sex trafficking and abuse.

In addition to her business pursuits, Yoon loves to run, road bike and travel. She has a thriving full-time Manhattan practice and is a frequent presenter at professional conferences on the topic of group psychotherapy and women leadership.